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How to buy jewelry without asking her size

A trick we use with hundreds of secret-gift buyers every month.

February 5, 2026 4 min read

You want to buy her a ring without spoiling the surprise. We get this question 5–10 times a day.

Here are three ways:

1. Borrow a ring she already wears

Take it to a jeweler — they'll size it in 60 seconds. Put it back before she notices.

2. Trace it on paper

Lay one of her rings on a piece of paper, trace the inner circle in pencil, photograph and email us. We'll size from the photo (yes, really).

3. Ask her best friend

Always works. Best friends know.

For necklaces

16" is the safest length — it sits at the collarbone and works for everyone.

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